Emotional Pain of separation and divorce
Hi Donna,
It was nice to “Bump into you” yesterday at the Home School Conference. I was there to help friends at their table.
The Family Business Books are practically done. I was able to return the Laptop I had to rent to finish the work. ($189 a month !! ) The Tax Audotor did not complete my ex-husband’s T4 correctly, and will not re-open the audit to make the corrections. So it means I may have to locate and undo 3 days worth of work, so he has the advantage of claiming the expenses on his tax return. I do everything with high integrity and he doesn’t trust me. So, eh;ping him in spite of his attitude toward me gives me a lump in my gut. However, I am praying and asking God what I could do instead that would give me the same result, without having to spend so much time in an emotionally painful place. Until then, I still have to face this emotionally difficult situation.
Then I need the information from the those Books to prepare our Separation Agreement. It is so emotional! I can’t trust the lawyer with it. Last time he did a draft, there were several mistakes. And I had to pay for his time. A friend has offered to allow me to work on this at her office. While there, they can keep me in prayer and in a spiritually bright environment. I hope this hurries things along.
I am still suffering from nervousness, anxiety. Last week, my mother called and criticised me about something, and it was the straw that broke the camel’s back. I fell to the floor weeping, stomach wretching, and my daughters could not console me for several hours. Please keep me in your prayers also.
That’s all for now.
Thanks for caring.
Love,
Diana
Tags: Divorce, Emotional Pain, Family Business, finances, Marriage, Separation